Que Sera, Sera

Que Sera, Sera, whatever will be, will be. The future's not ours to see. Que Sera, Sera. These are the lyrics from the 1956 song, recorded by Doris Day. They hold as true today as they did then. How much say do we really have in our lives. I think that while we are all masters of our destinies, some things are not for us to control. The fact is that our lives unfold before us and we can only guide the way. Years ago, I used to worry, more than I should have, about everything. Then I came to realize that whether or not I worried, the outcome would be the same. I learned to relax. It was not easy to learn. I had to use these skills recently. My healthcare insurance was cut off last week due to the employer not paying for it. This affected 6,000 people. For the first time in my life, I did not let this bump in the road upset me. I knew that I was not in control and no matter how much I carried on, this was not something I could remedy. I took it in stride and hoped for the best. Yesterday, I found out that the employer has made a contingency plan. There is no lapse in coverage, although the insurance carrier has changed. Had I gone back to my old ways, I would have made myself sick over this. I went with the flow and things turned out OK. Que Sera, Sera..........................