Respect

I was at my town pool yesterday and saw the same families I have been with in the summer for the past 20 years. One family in particular is very nice, but they do not know how to interact with each other. There is yelling, screaming and nastiness. A bit of spilled juice turned into a screaming match with the mother telling the daughter that she had no common sense. She did this in front of the entire pool. The daughter has her PhD, so believe me, she is a smart girl. At my lectures I teach that we need to speak to our families in the tone and manner we would speak to strangers. We talk nicer to people we do not know, than to people we love.