Say What You Mean

Say what you mean but don't say it mean. That is the difference between an argument and a discussion. Arguments usually end on a bad note. A discussion might not always end with one person persuading the other person to their point of view, but the two parties will walk away without any ill feelings. I try not to argue with anyone. If I disagree with another person's view, I try to talk it out in a calm way. Loud voices and harsh words never settle anything. As I get older, I have also learned when to just walk away because sometimes that is easier than opening up a conversation.