Queen Bee

I work with a woman who thinks she is "Queen Bee". Actually someone in the office gave her that name facetiously but she thought it was a compliment. She needs to be a controlling person and if you do not obey her, you can see the frustration in her face. She wants to tell you what to eat, when to eat it, what to wear and what to buy. I purposely do the opposite of what she says just for giggles. She wants things in the office to be a certain way. I am the office manager. No one tells me what to do. When I oppose her, she starts to hum a tune to settle herself down. It is always the same tune. As soon as she starts to hum it, I get a smile on my face. It is the song of defeat. Whether she likes it or not, what I say goes, no ifs ands or buts.